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Aisling, 28, who preferred not to be pictured, regretted every second of her one-night stand, saying she felt "used and cheated" When seen in the cold light of the morning after the night before, what had seemed like a rather thrilling idea at the time suddenly felt anything but for 28-year-old PR executive Aisling. At the party where they`d met, the prospect of a no-strings, one-night stand with a handsome young man had felt sexy, slightly dangerous, liberating and a salve to the ego following the end of a four-year relationship. After all, in this day and age, if men can do it, why can`t women? Only when Aisling woke up, she didn`t feel liberated. As her conquest departed with barely a backward glance, she felt used and cheated, even though she`d been under no illusion that it might lead to anything more. She worried about what the man really thought of her as a person, what friends would say if they found out, why her one-night stand had been so eager to depart without asking for a phone number. She felt rotten. In short, she regretted every second of it. `He was incredibly good-looking and all the girls fancied him,` recalls Aisling, who has now taken a vow of celibacy after a string of soulless one-night stands left her feeling cheap and worthless. `He pursued me relentlessly and I felt flattered that he was attracted to me, but after I slept with him I never heard from him again, and I later discovered he had many girls on the go. `For a while, I loved being single and went crazy, sleeping with lots of different men, but I quickly realised it was a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. `One guy, who was meant to be a close friend, took advantage of me when I was really drunk. We ended up having sex, and in the morning I was mortified.` Aisling, who asked that her surname be kept private, had her first taste of the single life aged 22, having broken up with her boyfriend of four years. `Sleeping with someone after a date or two seemed to be the thing everyone was doing and I didn`t even consider behaving differently,` she says bluntly. `But I felt as though I was getting conflicting signals from men. They`d say whatever it took to get me into bed and then drop me. ` `In all, the experience was very hurtful. It all felt rather unpleasant and I started to realise I didn`t want to sleep with men I didn`t feel a connection with. I wanted to have more self-respect,` says Aisling, who was always meticulous about practising safe sex. I actually think that sleeping with lots of Mr Wrongs puts up a barrier to finding Mr Right. `I actually think that sleeping with lots of Mr Wrongs puts up a barrier to finding Mr Right. One night stands left me feeling utterly deflated and worthless and when I found myself single again in June last year, I decided to wait for Mr Right before I had sex again.` Aisling could be forgiven for wondering what is wrong with her. In today`s heavy-drinking ladette, anything-he-can-do-I-can-do-better culture, the prevailing belief appears to be that what`s good for the gander is good for the goose, too, so to speak. But is it? According to new research published last week by Anne Campbell, Professor of Psychology at Durham University, the answer appears to be a surprising no. Indeed, her findings suggest that the majority of women aren`t suited to one-night stands at all, no matter how much they try to persuade themselves otherwise. Analysing the responses of 1,743 men and women who responded anonymously to an online survey - admitting to one-night stands - she found that 58 per cent of women, compared with only 23 per cent of men, regretted their fleeting, casual encounters with the opposite sex. The chief emotion expressed by these women was overwhelming regret. `Women of this generation have been sold a lie. We can`t have casual sex in the same way men can` They spoke of feeling `used` and `cheated` and of having let themselves down - even when they had no desire for the one-night stand to lead to a more permanent relationship. Many spoke of their distress at their partner`s `disrespectful` and `dismissive` behaviour the morning after, which felt to them like a cruel rejection after the intimacies of the night before. `If they blank you the next time they see you rather than just say "Hi" and smile or something, then they can shatter your confidence in an instant,` said one woman who took part in the survey. `Even if I didn`t want anything to do with them after a one-night stand, it would be nice to know if they liked me,` said another. A third continued: `I just wanted to feel a bit fancied and desirable. Didn`t work though - I felt cheap and dirty after . . .` A fourth concluded: `Thought it would be one of life`s experiences, but it was nothing like the sex in movies . . . the expectation was better than the reality: the sex was rubbish.` Men aren`t choosy when it comes to short encounters - spending the night with you doesn`t mean he finds you attractive at all. Contrast these comments with some of the men`s: `I believe that one-night stands are a good way of blowing off sexual steam` said one, while another stated the obvious motivations: `Excitement and lust`. Professor Anne Campbell, who analysed the survey for her report The Morning After The Night Before, says: `I was quite surprised at the significantly lower level of enjoyment among women. ` The message from society for the past 30 years is that if men can have it then we can have it, too. There has been a wholesale rejection of double standards and the message to young women has been, `if they do it, why shouldn`t we?` `Even if women don`t feel good about it the next day, there is a "why not?" attitude towards short-term sexual encounters. There is an experimental element in which they tell themselves: "I`m going to show myself that I can." And I`m sure alcohol plays some part in it all, adding a dynamic of its own. `What women don`t realise - and American studies have shown this - is that while men set very high standards for their long-term partners, the threshold for short-term encounters tends to drop like a stone. In short, men really aren`t very choosy at all about whom they have one-night stands with, so spending the night with you is not necessarily a sign that he finds you especially attractive at all.` Twenty-four-year-old Laura, a single account manager from South London, believes the research confirms everything she has begun to suspect. She has had two one-night stands - one with a good male friend from university - and a drunken one with a good-looking stranger she met in a college nightclub in Exeter, where she was studying English Literature - an encounter she describes now as `meaningless`. She is now looking for a more settled relationship and has shunned casual encounters. `Women like me, with university educations and financial independence, are brought up to believe that the world is our oyster,` she says. `We can be anything we want to be, we can travel the world, we can have relationships on our own terms, which includes of course having sex with a stranger if that is what we desire at the time. Men can separate their feelings and just have sex, whereas women connect on a much deeper level. `But does it lead to long-term happiness? I am beginning to think that it doesn`t. `I had one one-night stand with a guy I had known in university, who came to stay with me when I was teaching English in China, two years ago. He stayed in my flat, we had a few drinks and one thing led to another and we ended up in bed. `The next morning was really weird and I felt peculiar about it for a very long time. I didn`t feel used, but I was so worried it would affect our friendship. `We talked about it and managed to stay friends. I was lucky in that I could trust my friend not to hurt me, but if he had been a stranger I could have been easily hurt. `I really do think men can separate their feelings and just have sex, whereas women connect on a much deeper level. `There has been such a sea change in society`s attitudes towards sex and now we are supposed to feel like men and have loads of sex without falling in love, but I think that`s really tough and women aren`t being honest with themselves when they say their emotions are not involved.` According to Professor Campbell`s research, it seems that, regardless of today`s relaxed social mores, men really are biologically programmed to sow their wild oats before settling down, while women`s interests are best served by attracting a high-status, longterm partner who will stick around to help bring up the children. `In evolutionary biological terms, it is in a man`s interests to impregnate as many females as possible to spread his DNA as far and as wide as possible, but he would be crazy to hook up long-term with a promiscuous partner just like him. `How would he know if the children he was bringing up were his?` says Professor Campbell. Therefore in a `pair-bonded` society, a woman who shuns casual sex and appears the faithful type increases her attractiveness, or `mate value`, as a long-term partner and potential mother to a man`s children. From the woman`s point of view, says Professor Campbell, unlike males, who are far from choosy, females are subconsciously drawn to the `Brad Pitts` of this world for their one-night stands. `A female will go for the goodlooking, big, strong, alpha male with good genes and resources.` When last night`s `Brad Pitt` looks more like Mr Bean, a woman`s self-respect plummets. As for actually marrying the `Brad Pitts` of this world, a promiscuous woman jeopardises her chances of attracting a high-status long-term partner by giving away her assets too cheaply. If, however, in the sober light of day, last night`s `Brad Pitt` in fact looks more like Mr Bean, then a woman`s self-respect plummets. As for actually marrying the `Brad Pitts` of this world, a promiscuous woman jeopardises her chances of attracting a high-status long-term partner by giving away her assets too cheaply. He thinks: `If she is prepared to sleep with me so quickly, what`s stopping her from sleeping with someone else?` It would appear that liberated women are very much aware that by indulging in one-night stands they are lowering their `market price` in the economics of sexual exchange, and, at the very least, expect a degree of appreciation from a man after a one-night stand which is often not forthcoming. Erin Woodward, 27, has never had a one-night stand and never would, saying they are "destructive to happiness" Twenty-seven-year-old Erin Woodward, from London, who works in PR, says she has never had a one-night stand and never would. In terms of `mate value` she rates highly and indeed, it is no surprise to find that her boyfriend of two years is a lawyer. `I think women of my generation have been sold a lie,` she says. `They are not the same, emotionally, as men, and having one-night stands is so destructive to their happiness. `I make it clear to men that I am not available for casual sex. What do you gain from that as a woman? Sex is such an intimate encounter, and you are prepared to give everything of yourself to a stranger? `I know people will think I`m old-fashioned, but I think it`s astounding that you can meet a man in a club, have a few drinks and then he thinks that you will jump in a cab, go back to his flat and have sex with him. It must be so embarrassing the next morning. `I think if more women felt like me and restricted their behaviour, they would be much happier in the long run. Women are different from men - to me, sex means emotional involvement, that is the way we are programmed.` Communications executive Lisa Ventham, 33, from South London has just come out of a seven-year relationship and has been shocked to find how much women`s attitudes towards sex have changed in that time. `When I was younger, in my 20s, I had a couple of one-night stands with men who were friends. It was meaningless and I don`t think I gained anything from it,` says Lisa, `but I`ve been fascinated to see just how promiscuous women have become. `The amount of shallow, pointless one-night stands going on today is staggering. It seems to be the norm to meet a guy in a club, have a couple of drinks, then go off and have sex. `I remember even years ago when I worked as a holiday rep, I lost count of the number of women who came to me the next morning sobbing about how used they felt, and the fact their one-night stand wouldn`t even give them their telephone number. `These were "liberated" young women who`d come on holiday with the intention of getting blind drunk and sleeping with a guy they`d just met, but whereas the men just treated it as a night of sex and went off looking for the next girl, the women were always in tears and a complete mess afterwards.` Megan Roberts, a 23- year-old marketing manager from Nottingham, who holds a first class honours degree in English Literature, believes there`s nothing wrong with one-night stands. Currently in a long-term relationship, she says she would happily go back to casual sex if she were single. `Like most girls of my generation, I`ve had several one-night stands. Some have worked out well, others have been a disaster, but overall I think they are cool. Sex can just be sex - who cares?` she says. `My generation of smart, university-educated women believe that we can treat sex just the same as men do - purely casually. Women have complete equality. I am free-spirited and follow my heart. The only person I should answer to is myself.` Liberated or depressingly naive? According to recent polls, 53 per cent of Britons indulge in one-night stands and in one survey 75 per cent of people said it was acceptable to sleep with a partner on the first date. However, another survey two years ago by psychologists at Sheffield University found that 90 per cent of respondents said one-night stands were immoral. But if so many women find casual sex disappointing, downright depressing and damaging to their self-esteem, why do they continue to do it? Women may indeed be biologically programmed to go in search of their very own `Brad Pitt` - and may even make a quick conquest. They just shouldn`t be surprised when he doesn`t call the next day.
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Michael is arguably the most acclaimed and accomplished pro wrestler in history out of Northern Europe, as well as the pro wrestling pioneer of Finland, where he has lived since 1996 after moving from his homeland of Canada. Michael is known as an outspoken figure that bucks the system and swims against the tide. Known in pro wrestling circles as "The Rebel" StarBuck, Michael has been a champion the world over, in addition to being a rock vocalist in three bands, a personal trainer, a voice-over pro, a business owner, an actor, an artist and a husband. More: Our current society is over-sexed, beyond any shadow of a doubt. Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not immune to it, either. I’ve simply come to understand much of the problem and mass epidemic of garish sexuality that plagues the west right now, and it’s affecting absolutely everybody. Everything today is overtly sexual in nature, from advertising to music videos to the way girls dress out in public, right down to the pictures they post of themselves on Instagram, which are as soft-core pornographic and borderline smut as it gets these days. Boy, the lengths you’ve got to go nowadays to get attention. Conspicuous, ain’t it? Porn itself has become harder-edged than ever before, with revenge porn, all manner of fetish porn, and emotionless fucking taking center stage. A lot of it might be arousing, but hell, it’s ain’t even sex. It’s an aberration of sex and it doesn’t take a psychologist to understand that it has absolutely nothing to do with love, nor the original purpose of sex, which I’ll get into in just a minute. As a result of this overt sexuality running rampant nowadays, our dopamine stores are sorely vexed and running on damn near empty. We have troubles getting off, as a society. Yet, everyone wants sex. All the time, seemingly, if you can deduce anything from peoples’ talk and online behavior. It’s almost manic in nature, the way people laud on about sex. Of course, the window dressing promises you something entirely different than the stark reality that lies beneath all of this bullshit and it’s high time we woke up and smelled the house burning. Superimposed is the image of sexuality these days, looking vibrant and abundant. It seems everyone’s getting a piece of the action. Reality, however, couldn’t be any further from the truth. At the same time that this over-influx of sexuality is taking over like the plague, relationships are languishing far and wide from the lack of intimacy and nil sexual intercourse between actual couples. This has been well-documented all across the board in recent years by everyone from family counselors to sex therapists to psychologists. Statistically, it is shown in study after study, that couples are having less sex than every before right now. For men, porn has largely taken hold of their imagination, dulling the libidinous blade considerably and sabotaging their dopamine tanks, which are essential (and to be rationed) as a trigger for sexual stimulus response. As a side-note, this is probably why the frequency of sex teeters off to two or three times a week for most married couples, but that amount generally doesn’t present a problem to those in long-term relationships. Granted, cellphones, tablets, laptops, and iPads play a huge part in this aforementioned emotional detachment, which sees both parties in the relationship being swept away mentally into alternate realities and useless brain clutter in the form of inane entertainment and facetious “news” that are as quickly forgotten as they are ingested. People are way too mentally engaged with what may as well be deemed white noise (which, for those of you who are too young to know, was the static white screen of fuzz from old school TV sets when the channel didn’t show) and everyone is paying a huge price for this. Yet, the majority are so numbed by their chosen tech drug, that they don’t even recognize — nor are willing to accept — this utterly tripe reality of the way things truly are these days. And so we come to the area of casual sex, which seems to be the most sought-after kind of actual sex on the market today. Easy flings, no attachments. Getting laid is the top priority, superceding everything else. Superficiality to the umpteenth degree and the age of Tinder. Just the quick release, because real attachment is way too scary and requires far too much work. We want easy lays these days. Since everyone wants to get laid, what’s so wrong with casual sex, then? Let’s break it down. First of all, the proof is already in the pudding: nothing sticks anymore. You don’t have to look any further than the writing on the wall. Stick a piece of tape enough times on any surface of your choosing, pull it off, repeat said process until the glue wears off and all you have left is a useless, used piece of tape, ready to be thrown away. And yeah, statistics show that there are more broken marriages, fleeting romances, single parents, and disenchanted singles today that at any recordable point prior. This is already a social epidemic. The arguments to get into a serious relationship aren’t there, due to the superficial values that people hold these days. In that light, it’s no surprise that the fish aren’t taking the bait. What is there to win? What is there to be had? If I give something up (read: a part of my personal freedom to be with you), what do I gain (read: how will you contribute to make my life better)? Well, the only thing to be had is quick, casual sex, after which you get the hell out of there, and trust me, that shit gets old fast. Motörhead had it right when Lemmy sang sometimes the chase is better than the catch. Once you pop the cork, the anticipation is done. The thrill of the kill is over. That thrill, folks, is a one-time occurrence with every single new catch. Were there key arguments to sticking around, a whole lot of men and women would be forming lasting, healthy relationships after one night stands and casual flings. Point blank, that is the truth. Yet, it doesn’t happen. And it’s obvious why: neither party have bothered to invest their time into seeing whether there is anything worth of value underneath the initially attractive surface. It’s called window dressing, folks. It’s the icing on the cake, not the substance underneath. The base could just as well be made of dog shit and people would eat it anyway, based on appearances (read: the outer core). We’ve become so goddamned hedonistic and lazy that we may as well just lie in the bed that we’ve made for ourselves, but that ain’t the formula for happiness or contentment. My father is a wise man and I was lucky enough to get a good degree of mentoring from him about life as I was growing up. As a preacher amongst small, immigrant communities in Canada in the ’70s, ’80s and ’90s, Dad counselled many newly married or otherwise married couples as part of his pastoral job. There’s something that my father said to me one day, back when I was a young man: ”Son, don’t get intimately involved with a woman too early. It messes up her emotional radar.” What my father implied was that becoming sexually involved too early with a girl fogs the mind and you don’t end up making calculated, wise decisions or discernments about the person, nor do you see them in the light of reality as they truly are. I would argue that this works both ways. You don’t know whether the other person is capable of negotiation, compromise or if they even want to do the job that would be required of them from your point of need in a possible serious relationship. You end up in a dreamworld of self-fabricated ideals and expectations, because your emotions are running the show and euphoria is high. Why is this? Because you simply cannot touch another person more intimately, than through the act of sex. And this act, in and of itself, especially when it’s new, clouds one’s rational judgement. Whether we want to admit it or not, sex goes deeper than the skin. It touches the spirit. Otherwise, we wouldn’t be so wounded and devastated after break-ups. It’s a 3D experience: it messes with the mind, it touches the spirit and it is a bodily, physical interaction. Mind, body, spirit — get it? Therefore, it’s simply foolhardy to become intimate with someone you hardly even know. There’s no foundation of trust, no familiarity, no depth whatsoever. Yet, you end up going to the deepest part of another, touching their most intimate inner person, without even knowing them. Oh, I know that as a strapping young lad, many hate to hear this. The truth is rarely convenient for any of us. No apologies, guys. I am only sharing what life has taught me as I look back here in my mid-40s. Yeah, in hindsight, my dad was right. Even I could have played my cards smarter back in the day. But yeah, I had to learn these things the hard way, too. We’ve been brainwashed to be slaves to our own desires, which we have allowed to run rampant and lead us. Back in the day, before the mass social engineering of “free love,” our modern sexual conundrum would have been seen as madness. Of course, people throughout the ages have been promiscuous. Still, it was more of a hush-hush thing, something done under the cover of night, something done in secret (with the exception of openly garish times like the fall of Ancient Rome and such, which led its peoples’ to quick and imminent demise). Never before has it been so blatantly promoted and glorified as it is nowadays. Casual sex creates problems for you personally. How? Well, let’s say you’ve had the best sex of your life with a certain girl. Let’s say she did all of the hot and nasty stuff that you like. Let’s say your mind imploded and she left you wondering, “Can it ever get better than this?” Then, let’s fast-forward to your break-up with this special girl. Things just didn’t work out between the two of you. She was headed east, whereas you were headed west. You both wanted different things from life. Her values system was completely different than yours, and there was no way you could have ever survived as a cohesive, harmonious couple. Yet, you had the best sex of your life with her. Guess what, buddy? You’re going to find yourself languishing in Wax Nostalgic Land for years to come, just wishing that the girl you are now with is somehow going to find a way to give you the kind of ride that your ex did. Of course, this is damn near impossible, since there are so many other factors at play. Like comedian Chris Rock so aptly stated in one of his stand-ups: ”Men cannot go backward sexually.” You’ve got all of the little idiosyncrasies that make up each individual person (read: everyone is unique) and moment, and you simply cannot duplicate those. It’s like magic: it only shows up once. If you fail to grab on to it when it’s there, too bad for you. You’ve blown your chance. Move on, because it’ll never come back the same way again. Living with the mental burden of lying in wait for that next equally hot lay as the best you ever had does no favors to you as a man. Read that line again and stop to think about it. A lot of guys get trapped on the thrill of the kill train, finding themselves ever after a new lay in order to feel the high of conquering a woman again and again. The dopamine high requires, as it were, this sacrifice, as without this constant pursuit, life would be so much more colorless and boring. This endless cycle, however, is devastating to the man’s spirit and absolutely desensitizes his mind. It’s called becoming jaded. Add to that a few STD’s and you have yourself quite a cocktail of unhappiness. Of course, there is always the flipside of the coin. If you don’t experiment and play the field, taste the flavors and indulge in your curiosities, you may end up haunted by the things that never were. Yet, even part of that is social engineering. We’ve been taught by our culture to be this way, to want to ride the carousel. It’s been pounded into our heads that men want to sow their seed as far and wide as possible and monogamy was never in cards for us, especially as the males of the species. Believe what you want. You will always know the tree by the fruit that it bears. I remember reading an article way back in my early 20s from either Playboy or Penthouse magazine, interviewing five or six random women about the best sex that they ever had. Only one girl said that the only man she ever had was the man she married, her husband, and she has never had bad sex in her life. Wow! What a testimonial! Just think of how lucky that girl was, with no other person to compare her husband to. She was completely satisfied with the man she was with. How many people today could state the same thing? How many people would give anything to be in this girl’s shoes? Oh yeah, and whoever her husband is, he should count himself truly blessed and lucky. I am sure there are countless men today who would give their left nut to hear the same thing from the woman they are now with. Ah, the unpopular truth, once again rearing its unwanted head! We all could have been smarter, fellas. We all could have implemented more caution, critical gaming eye and common sense. Instead, we let our lust do the talking and then, like a dog on a leash, our lust led the way and did the walking for us, too. And we’ve only got ourselves to blame. We let go of the reins. Anyone remember the movie Grease (1978), with Olivia Newton-John and John Travolta? Sociologists and the like have deemed that this movie was the pivotal turning point in steering the American (read: Western) youth down the road of eroded morality (read: casual sex). In that movie, Olivia Newton-John’s character Sandy falls hard for bad boy Danny, played by Travolta. To appease and please her bad boy boyfriend, Sandy starts to smoke and have casual sex with him, as if that were a way for girls to hook and keep the men they wish to have in their lives. This film was a huge, smash hit when it came out (and remains an all-time Hollywood classic to this day), and it caused a social shift in the underlying consciousness of the youth of its day. That generation spawned the next generation and you can do the rest of the math, seeing where we find ourselves in the here and now. But, unlike in the movies, in life the bad boy and the good girl rarely, if ever, make for a doable, stable couple. The same goes for the stripper and the preacher’s son, a close call that I avoided by the grace of God Almighty back in the mid-’90s. This is because one’s values dictate who they are and how they behave. A clash of values will have you at constant war with one another. Just like Simon Sinek ascribes: People don’t buy what you sell, they buy what you believe. Maybe one of the least asked questions is: what is the actual, natural role of sex outside of procreation? Yet, this is an integral and all-important question, and the answer is really quite simple and exclusive. If you break it down, sex is a bonding experience between a man and a woman. It unites the couple. It is perhaps the highest form of intimacy to be had. At the very least, it’s the most tangible. Sex is meant to bring a man and woman together and strengthen their bond to one another. Take a couple who aren’t having sex, and you can see a whole slew of problems arise. Granted, it can be well argued and seen that sex is a reflection of how a relationship is actually doing otherwise. While sex is something that you spend an considerably short amount of time engaged in, its significance is monumental to the health of any said marriage or intergender love relationship. And since sex is a bonding experience that we cannot discount or nullify, it is madness to think that being sexually intimate with a large number of prospects or flings would make you more of a man, a better person, more fulfilled or stronger or better to any degree. Being a busy Cassanova doesn’t make you an alpha; strength of character does. So first and foremost, outside of procreation, it can be firmly seen that sex is a bonding experience. After that, you can sprinkle in the pleasure, the release, the kicks, the high and what have you. But be smart: recognize the foundation and trunk before just chopping off branches for your own immediate personal pleasure. Once again, don’t get me wrong. I’m not talking from up on a high horse here. I like a nice pair of tits and ass as much as the next guy. But, like ice cream, just because I like doesn’t mean that I should freely indulge. You’ve got to know what it’s going to cost you. Ice cream has a shitload of calories that you will have to jog your ass off to get rid of, if you don’t want to get fat, just as fucking any random hot girl that you meet will cost you on the aforementioned personal levels that we’ve gone through here. Simply, it just isn’t worth it, no matter how tempting the prospect of casual sex is. Your stock as a man should not be hingent upon your sexual validity in terms of nailing any hot chick that you desire. You should know who you are as a man, and you should know your internal stock. You should not be so weak and vain, that you need another sexual conquest to validate your manliness, masculinity, masculine fortitude or power in general. Just like with everything else in life, true value and power comes from within. Its about knowing who you are, knowing your true strength and respecting and honing your personal, strong qualities. Only after waking up from the dream state that you otherwise would wish to remain in, will you be able to understand this, as Anthony De Mello so eloquently and bluntly pictured it in his fantastic book Awareness . Yeah, I know this puts you between a rock and hard place, but that’s life. Choose your hard. We all need a war to win, a battle to fight. Stop settling for sloppy seconds. And step one in getting off of this self-defeating pussy carousel of casual sex is to orient yourself in finding a quality girl that is worth her stock, whom you can honestly marry and make a keeper. If you aren’t having luck finding her, start asking the right questions. Get serious. Don’t waste any more of your life. Start making the right choices now for a better personal tomorrow.
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Daryush "Roosh" Valizadeh created ROK in October 2012. You can visit his blog at RooshV.com or follow him on Twitter and Facebook . Compelling new scientific research has shown that female insects and mammals are able to absorb foreign DNA throughout the cells of their bodies. In human beings, this phenomenon has been conclusively shown to occur in women during pregnancy where genetic material from her growing fetus becomes fused within areas of her brain , affecting her chances of developing Alzheimer’s disease. The evidence now shows that female animals can incorporate sperm DNA from her prior sex partners. This foreign DNA winds up in future children after the woman successfully reproduces with a completely different male. In the human world, this means that the children a man has with a promiscuous woman could possess genes from previous sexual partners he has never seen or met. There are existing sociological studies that show a marriage is far more likely to fail when a woman had more than two prior sexual partners ( 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 ), but now renewed support for the once-questionable field of telegony is showing that there are also genetic reasons not to start a family with a promiscuous woman: children you have with her may have their gene pool polluted by her random affairs and one-night stands. Telegony is an idea first proposed by Aristotle that claims offspring can inherit genes from the mother’s previous sexual partners. This idea was not scientifically supported until evidence piled up of microchimerism, the phenomenon of foreign DNA becoming incorporated into the genome of an individual. This was first noted to happen in the case of blood transfusions . If you have received blood while in a state of trauma, your donor’s DNA can become incorporated into your genome. Surprisingly little research has been done on microchimerism since then, but all signs point to this being a widespread and common genetic phenomenon throughout the animal kingdom. A groundbreaking study on flies last year showed the process of females incorporating DNA from previous male partners and then exhibiting that male DNA into future spawn they had with completely different males. Scientists at the University of New South Wales discovered that, for fruit flies at least, the size of the young was determined by the size of the first male the mother mated with, rather than the second male that sired the offspring. “Our new findings take this to a whole new level – showing a male can also transmit some of his acquired features to offspring sired by other males,” she says. “But we don’t know yet whether this applies to other species.” Dr Stuart Wigby of the Department of Zoology at Oxford University added: “The principle of telegony is theoretically possible for pretty much any internally fertilising animal, but these hasn’t historically been much evidence for it. The researchers suggested that the effect is due to molecules in the seminal fluid of the first mate being absorbed by the female’s immature eggs, and then influencing the growth of offspring of a subsequent mate. It is possible that Mc [microchimerism] in the brain is able to differentiate into various mature phenotypes or undergoes fusion with pre-existing cells and acquires a new phenotype, as suggested by murine and human studies in which bone marrow-derived cells circulated to the brain and generated neuronal cells by differentiation, or fused with pre-existing neurons. Although the relationship between brain Mc and health versus disease requires further study, our findings suggest that Mc of fetal origin could impact maternal health and potentially be of evolutionary significance. The above study has two seismic implications. The first is that a woman can absorb enough DNA during her lifetime that it changes her phenotype (i.e. her appearance and overall health state). There could be some truth to the phrase “ slut face ” in which highly promiscuous women suffer a change to their appearance because of all the variable sperm from different males that have been deposited inside them. The second implication stems from the fact that it’s scientifically conclusive that single mothers have DNA of their bastard children residing permanently within their bodies. Any man who reproduces with a single mom will have a child that contains DNA from the bastard spawn, which of course includes DNA from the absentee father. This means that men can be genetically cuckolded without being traditionally cuckolded, and that having a baby with a single mom is essentially giving the father of her first child a bonus prize in the game of evolution. Microchimerism has also been noted in dogs , where older siblings pass on their DNA to younger siblings, suggesting that first-borns possess the highest genetic purity, a suspicion perhaps suspected by the royalty of old. Not only that, but the mother dogs incorporated Y-chromosome material from her male children. The mother dog essentially becomes more masculine by having sons. The researchers found cells with Y-chromosomes in the mother after these births, meaning the mother had male cells present in her female body. The researchers also found genetically similar male cells in the mother’s female puppies from a later litter. Those puppies were newborn and had never been pregnant, strongly suggesting that they acquired the cells that were left behind by their older brothers while in the womb. If a woman absorbs Y-chromosome genes from male sperm via casual sex, this would easily explain why women with high notch counts exhibit more masculine traits, something that any international playboy can anecdotally confirm. The promiscuous girl becomes more masculine because various masculine genes are being inserted into her genome and affecting her phenotype. Some of the older ideas on telegony, dating over a century, now don’t seem so left field : French biologist and philosopher Felix Le Dantec in his work “Individual Evolution, Heredity and Neo-Darwinists” (1899) mentions several facts that demonstrate telegony. But the evidence was quite pseudo-scientific even for that epoch. The author gave two examples with animals and one for humans. Le Dantec wrote that some farmer told him that once his swine copulated with a boar and their pigs absolutely resembled the father in color. But when the same swine copulated with another boar some pigs of the second farrow still resembled the color of the male pig the swine had copulated first. He also wrote about Lord Morton who first interbred a mare and a zebra and got a hybrid of horse and zebra. Next time he interbred the same mare with a horse. As a result of the second copulation the lord still got a colt that had lines resembling those of a zebra. Microchimerism is on the leading edge of genetic research that has lately included epigenetics , which is the switching on and off of certain genes due to environmental cues. Epigenetics has raised questions against evolutionary theory because it shows genetic adaption can occur within individual organisms without the need for natural selection. New research is revealing how little we actually know about how the human genome works, suggesting a more complex picture than we’ve imagined. Sociological research was the first to show that marrying women with a robust sexual history increased the likelihood of a failed marriage. Now genetic research adds more evidence to show that such women will birth children that—to a degree we don’t yet understand—are not entirely of the father’s. Because this new field of research is politically incorrect in painting strongly negative consequences for women leading a “strong and independent” promiscuous lifestyle, we are unlikely to see liberal universities approve much in the way of further research in this area. For thousands of years, a woman’s purity was cherished above all else when it came to creating a family. Now the scientific community is confirming the validity of that practice. Until the science is settled, men who insist on reproducing with a promiscuous woman should at least demand to interview her previous sexual partners so he can become familiar with the men whose genes may be passed on to his future children.
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